The fear of getting attached

There will be a time that we will be afraid of welcoming people into our lives.

We will be scared of letting people in and get attached with them.




The reason is our fear of suffering the pain of letting go.

And the first and the most basic thing that we will thing of doing to protect ouselves is to stay away from the people we are afraid of getting attached



Which is so hard because it is equivalent to avoiding the privilege of becoming happy.
And there is a thing that will worsen it



We will be caught in the middle of choosing which pain to endure, which pain can we stand better
The pain caused by unhappiness and loneliness or the pain that we know, nobody will ever be strong enough to stand against it



The pain of letting go